Tag Archives: sexuality

Know The Ledge… The Clitoris (NSFW)

Le clitoris – Animated Documentary (2016) from Lori Malépart-Traversy on Vimeo.

I know where it is. Did I always know? NAH! But I learned fairly quickly via fieldwork. Years of watching the Spice Channel and Adam & Eve didn’t help. As enjoyable as many of us find pornography, using it for sexual education is like going to McDonald’s for Chicken Cordon Bleu. Fast food for the mind rarely leaves us full. 112 sang about it on “Peaches and Cream” but at the age of fifteen or sixteen, I had no idea what it was. I thought that it was just the P U Double S Y, you know the thing that causes every motherfucker in the world to dress fly or at least that’s what Shawn Carter said. Continue reading

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Dedicated to “Nawlins”….


Each tattoo tells a bit of my life story. I’m not one of those “gun attached to brass knuckles mixed with a knife kind of tattoo” people. Each of my now 22 tattoos bares some kind of importance. My most recent piece is a dedication to the city that showed me that I had a bit of growing up to do. Now I wasn’t down there being a menace to myself and others but there was a bit about yours truly that I hadn’t even come to terms with. Continue reading

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It’s All Conscious Porn…


There’s an intro on one of Raekwon’s albums where Papa Wu says that you can’t be good and bad at the same time. I understood his point but I have to disagree. There’s never just one way to be and that’s the beauty of being human. Duality allows us to float between two extremes and that can aid us in finding our place in the world. The more that we give in to our true selves the better we feel. Repressing sucks and I can say that from first hand experience. Continue reading

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2.27.17 Thoughts


1. I love women to the point of nauseation. I’d explain it but I’m not into dry snitching.

2. Political Correctness has no place in battle rap. The Remy Ma Nicki Minaj diss track “Shether” was COLD BLOODED. For the most part, it received positive reviews but the Social Justice Warriors decided to come out of their bunkers and have their say. “The song was OK aside from the SLUT SHAMING!” Well what did you expect? Did you want Remy Ma to say nice things on a diss track? IT’S A DISS TRACK! YOU’RE SUPPOSED TO BE DISRESPECTFUL! SHIT! Continue reading

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A Single Life: The Quest…

Picture this: You’ve just broken up with your girlfriend – yes, the one that you swore up and down that you were going to marry – and you’re about to be single again. What do you do? Where do you go? How do you learn how to walk again? For four years I’ve had to build, destroy, and then rebuild again. It hasn’t been easy but when was it ever? Continue reading

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How Many is Too Many?

I watched this video while letting my chicken tenders marinate in the refrigerator. I always wondered how many sexual partners were too many and I think once you reached the triple digit mark, you can hang that jersey in the rafters and call it a life. Supposedly, Wilt Chamberlain had sex with over 20,000 women. 20,000?! Listen as much as I love sex I’d be disgusted with myself if I ever came close to that number. I’d be so tired of fucking that I’d join a Shaolin Temple and become one of those reclusive monks that only left the grounds to sell dumplings at the town market. Continue reading

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ESSENTIAL READING: How To Think More About Sex


As referenced in my Thoughts About Sexuality post, this is one of the books that I read that helped to form a stronger knowledge base on the subject. Author Alain De Botton’s book thoroughly broke down the pleasures and problems of sex. I never knew how fetishes developed or the complexities of sexual attraction before reading  How To Think More About Sex. For those that are under the flawed impression that sex is just a physical thing, a “body thing” (check the reference!) then you, my friend, need to pick this up IMMEDIATELY!!!

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Thoughts About Sexuality….


I’ve felt this way for a while and it’s been one hell of a journey to get to this point. You try to deny things about yourself but when the writing is on the wall and the ribbon is in the sky, acceptance is the only way out. I’ve known for a long time that I was a freak but growing up in a society that at the time was a bit inhibited, exploration had to be done on the low. But these days, after my experiences, the game has changed completely and I’m all for it. Continue reading

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Sway In The Morning w/ The Punany Poets

The Punany Poets discuss sex and the ability to orgasm in a major way. I hope I learn something from this so that I can be applied in the necessary environments.

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“Slut Shaming” and Moving Beyond Labels

I saw the light. It shone brightly yesterday afternoon. Even though I had always been aware of it, I chose to “ignore” it. Sometimes it takes a word, a picture, or in this case a Funny or Die video starring Amber Rose to bring to all the way around. First, I’d like to say that the concept and execution of the “Walk of No Shame” skit was very well done. Casting Amber Rose as the star was an interesting choice since she’s been seen on the VMAs literally wearing her anti-slut shamming campaign and has current plans for a Slut Walk in LA next month. The premise of this comedy short features Amber leaving the home of a one night stand and walking through a neighborhood garnering a warm reception for exhibiting her sexuality and not being shamed for it. The funniest part has to be the little kid saying to his mother, “Mommy, did that woman get fucked last night?” and she calmly replies “It seems as if she did”. I often wonder since sex is an essential part of our survival as a species, why is it viewed with disdain? How did it become taboo? And how can we shame someone for living the life that they choose?  Continue reading

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